Calmly explaining the specific disruptive behavior and how it impacted the class.
“Hi [Student’s Name], I wanted to talk to you about something that happened in class today. During our discussion, I noticed that you were frequently interrupting your classmates. This made it difficult for others to share their thoughts and for the class to stay focused on the topic.”
Listen to the student’s perspective:
- Actively; make eye contact, nod, and use engaging body language.
- Avoid interrupting: let the student share their perspective freely.
- Reflect and paraphrase: "It sounds like you were frustrated because…".
- Ask open-ended questions: "Can you tell me more about what happened?".
- Recognize and validate the student’s feelings: “I can see that this situation upset you."
- Stay calm and neutral and avoid judgment or criticism.